We are in North Carolina, but only for about a week. Still trying to clear out the house in Michigan and get it sold. Currently we plan to be out of there no later than 12-1.
DH is currently driving me insane with this move. Between “accidentally” breaking those things of mine he doesn’t want to move or giving away things I want to keep, then there is the issue of CARDBOARD. Cardboard is now the bane of my existence. I’ve disliked brown (other than wood) ever since I did one of my apartments in black, brown, and beige, back in the seventies and discovered that while it was stunning in its day, it was also depressing. I have since moved into two homes decorated (during the same era) in dark brown that I’ve had to completely change.
CARDBOARD is Brown. CARDBOARD is also not a substitute for furniture. CARDBOARD does not enhance any décor. We have sold the dining room set in MICHIGAN. Two sets of china, one of crystal, and various and a sundry serving and antique pieces are now stored in CARDBOARD in NC. I cannot unpack them, since the new built-in china cabinet I have on order is not installed in NC, and in fact keeps getting delayed by my husband (who promised to install). While I have the unable to unpack issue, he keeps bringing CARDBOARD into my living space like some trophy! I hate cardboard, I like furniture, and I want a space that is free of chaos. Just a small one, in a living room, with furniture.
I am currently afraid to fall asleep on a sofa for fear that I’ll awaken, locked in a trailer or a pods. He is now running around our home in NC with a camera taking pictures of furniture so he can sell them.
We don’t have all the replacement furniture down here yet, but he wanted to haul the sofa to a storage unit tomorrow! What are we to sit on?
Perhaps the CARDBOARD boxes containing crystal or antique china? (Is more accidental breakage being planned?)
DH also has a theory that he should only have to move an box once. The way this theory works is that when you pack a box, it sits there (whereever you packed it, in the way, so you can look at it) until the trailer or pods is ready to accept it.
I had a melt down on that one. After rationally (more or less) explaining ( . . !@#$%^&*) that this was unacceptable, and that the move, our marriage, and possibly his life, were in jeopardy we reached a compromise. Allowances have to be made. DH is an engineer, and very linerar. Most times a good husband, but still and Engineer. I have the skills to deal with this (34 years in the Auto Industry) but, it's still driving me insane.
All the beds may be going into storage but, I'm keeping the couch!
Thanks for listening to my rantings. I hope it raised your spirits or gave you a good laugh.
Life is good, moving is not. I
feel marginally better for the rant.